My Kidmin Tech Adventure

Jared M —  February
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I had an exciting opportunity this Sunday to incorporate tech into our kidmin programming.  Prior to Christmas, none of the kids in our ministry had cell phones.  Now, at least four of them have private lines.  When I realized this fact on Sunday, I also realized the opportunities this could create.  After obtaining permission from the parents, I text messaged each of the kids our theme verse for the month.  I also asked the parents for permission to text the kids occasionally to encourage them to incorporate our monthly virtue into their everyday lives (never during school hours, though wouldn’t it be awesome to remind kids to be kind during recess?). 

Some of you probably think this is a very basic incorporation of tech into kidmin, and you’re right.  But in the small town I live in, tech advances much slower than it does in most of the US.  You know when AT&T says they cover 97% of America, we’re in the 3%.  

With this little experiment of using texting to send the verses to our kids, I am also looking for the opportunities to do the same with the parents.  Do you do something similar with your kids and/or parents?  Let me know in the comments section.  I’d rather not reinvent the wheel.  But for those of you who are going to suggest Twitter, we’re not there yet. :)

Gray 300 x 250 2Maybe we’re not quite there yet, but our church is working towards a strategy that successfully leverages the influences of both church and family to help reach the world for Christ.  In its simplest form, that is what I understand the orange strategy to be.  If I’m wrong, I guess I’ll learn that when I watch the free Orange Tour Webcast next Tuesday.  Are you going to join me?

I’ve also discovered that a variety of authors will be writing about the orange strategy this week.  I will be joining them, though unofficially, and will also be offering some of my thoughts on both the orange strategy and the upcoming Orange Conference.

I’d also like to take this opportunity to invite you to join me at the Orange Conference April 27-29.  I’m looking forward to sharing the experience, both the twelve-hour drive and the conference, with my senior pastor.  I’d also love to meet up with as many kidmin peeps as I can.  I’m especially interested to hear how some of you in smaller and/or rural churches are successfully implementing a comprehensive orange strategy into you ministries.  You can register for Orange by clicking the banner ad on the side or the one within this post (for the record, I do not receive any compensation from them for that ad).  If you register by February 17, you save $30 per person and receive $50 Orange credit, up to $200.

I have a confession to make.  For the first time since starting the one year reading challenge, I fell behind this last week.  And it wasn’t just one or two days, it ended up being most of the last four days of the week.  Ouch!

Okay, now that I’ve confessed my inadequacy at keeping with my Bible readings this week, I want to encourage those of you who may have fallen behind at any point.  It happens, but don’t let that stop you from reading all together.

Monday (February 7, 2011)

  • Exodus 25-27

Tuesday (February 8, 2011)

  • Exodus 28-29

Wednesday (February 9, 2011)

  • Exodus 30-32

Thursday (February 10, 2011)

  • Exodus 33-35

Friday (February 11, 2011)

  • Exodus 36-38

Saturday (February 12, 2011)

  • Exodus 39-40

Sunday (February 13, 2011)

  • Leviticus 1-4

What is it worth to you to hear Reggie Joiner, Sue Miller, Carey Nieuwhof, and Stuart Hall all talk about the Orange Strategy?  The Orange Tour has been traveling the country doing just that for thousands of leaders across the country.  Now, they are bringing many of those same sessions right to your office or living room.

On Tuesday, February 15, those four leaders will be broadcasting the Orange Tour webcast.  The webcast is a one day event that features some of the key sessions from the Orange Tour.  Not only that, but I have worked hard to get them to agree to let all Small Town Kidmin readers view the webcast for free.  (Truthfully, the entire webcast will be free to anyone and I didn’t even have to ask.)

For all of the information, go to  You can also sign up to receive email notifications as more details become available. 

This is really a great opportunity for all of us in children or youth ministry, but especially those of us in rural America.  I strongly urge you to try to make arrangements to watch the webcast and even see if you can get your pastor and/or student director to watch it with you.

I know there are a number of forums out there with great discussions happening, but it seems like it is mostly the same people participating in the discussion.  I’m hoping to get the conversation going on here by asking an open-ended question. The goal is to get the conversation started.  What happens from there is up to you.  I know people don’t comment much on blogs, but I encourage you to leave a response and participate.  Just the process of typing your answer may be beneficial to you.  Please feel free to remain anonymous and use a pseudonym in the name line.

So, here’s this month’s questions.

Should we teach kids how to defend their faith (apologetics)?

For added discussion:  Does the Christian faith even need to be defended? Does teaching them apologetics make our faith sound weak? How do we do this? Special classes? During Sunday School? During regular kids’ church?  If we do teach it, at what age should we start?

This post is part of a series pertaining to doing a regular family service or “family experience” in a small church.  View the first post here.

Our Family eXperiences (or FX) take place on the fourth Sunday night of the month.  For our first few FXs, we used the virtue that the kids had been talking about for that month and did a sort of recap.  In an effort to better equip our parents and encourage dialog at home, we have shifted and now premiere the upcoming month’s virtue at FX.  This has met with great satisfaction and is an added bonus for the kids who come to FX.  They get to know the virtue before anyone else.

For our welcome we do a comic host and credible host routine.  The comic host enters with some sort of dilemma, problem, or outrageous behavior that conveniently pertains to that nights topic and sets up the introduction of the virtue.

One of our hosts is “The Famous Dr. Know.”  Dr. Know is a mad scientist type character, more of a crazy scientist with an afro, who is played by our pastor.  What I love about using him in this role is the exposure it gives him to the kids at church.  I want the kids in our church growing up knowing that he is their pastor, I’m the children’s/youth pastor.  I also like it because they get to see him let his guard down, which means they know he can have fun in addition to be serious.

Another of our comic hosts, though she doesn’t come out as much, is “Millie the Baker who bakes.”  Millie is a baker who never seems to get her recipe right, that is, when she uses a recipe.  Millie is played by our pastor’s wife, who also is our preschool/nursery director. 

Both of our characters have extremely low-budget costumes, but when working with comic characters, sometimes it is actually better when the outfit looks a little pieced together.  Don’t get me wrong, they look good, but you would be surprised what you can put together with borrowed items and after Halloween sales. 

It is safe to say that with both Dr. Know and Millie, the adults AND kids enjoy the opening routine.  It is fun to see your pastor or his wife acting goofy and in costume.  Plus, both of them are surprisingly talented and do a great job with their characters.

That’s how our FXs begin.  By the time the welcome is finished, the direction is set for the service and the congregation has their attention focused on what is happening.  From there, we move on to dismissal…gotcha, just making sure you were paying attention.

Last week, I talked about the importance of bragging on your family in the privacy of your own home.  It tells them that they are valuable to you because you have nothing to gain by doing so.  Besides bragging on them in privacy, brag on them in public.  When done properly, it doesn’t come across as braggy, but as something genuine and authentic.

This is something I can be really good at…and other times I can be really bad at.  Sometimes, I have the tendency to make jokes at my wife’s expense.  On the flip side, I can’t talk about her for more than a few seconds without saying how wonderful she is.  I do my very best to recognize her publicly for the work she does. 

During our Christmas musical she did a lot of work getting things ready behind the scenes.  She was also responsible for ordering the roses that we give to those who help.  In her own humility, she didn’t order a rose for herself.  I made a special point to contact the florist and get one extra rose.  I couldn’t believe how much it meant to her. 

With our kids, this is just as important.  Make sure you brag on your kids when you’re around others.  It’s easier for me now, because my son is at major milestones, learning to walk and talk and beatbox (the most adorable thing you’ve ever seen).  I am already intentional about bragging on him so that, hopefully, I will do it when he is older.  I want him to know that I don’t care what other people think, I’m proud of him because he is my son.

One final word on this matter.  I have been on the receiving end of a father who uses personal stories about his kids during sermons.  Be cautious when doing this and always ask your kid’s permission before doing so.  Even good stories can be embarrassing.  I had a professor who said he paid his kids a few dollars for every story he used of them in sermons.  I like this idea and may implement it with my own kids someday.  Whether I pay them or not, I will definitely clear it by them first.

As of Friday, I have officially read two complete books of the Bible through this Bible reading challenge.  At some point, I know the readings will jump around more than they are right now and I look forward to that.  If you are doing the reading challenge as well, hop over to kidmin1124 and offer your comments.  Or leave them in the comment section below.

Monday (January 31, 2011)

  • Exodus 4-6

Tuesday (February 1, 2011)

  • Exodus 7-9

Wednesday (February 2, 2011)

  • Exodus 10-12

Thursday (February 3, 2011)

  • Exodus 13-15

Friday (February 4, 2011)

  • Exodus 16-18

Saturday (February 5, 2011)

  • Exodus 19-21

Sunday (February 6, 2011)

  • Exodus 22-24

I remember when I first heard that was offering free kidmin and other church resources.  I was skeptical of what would actually be offered for “free.”  Though I’m young, I’ve been around long enough to know that people rarely give anything of value away for nothing.  That is the motivation behind the Free Resource Friday, to help you sift through all of the stuff out there and give you the best free kidmin resources. 

On my first visit to Open by, I expected to be able to view samples or get low res video clips, but be asked to pay for the full curriculum or high res videos.  Fortunately for me, and everyone else, they offer all of their stuff for free, in its entirety.  It really is some good stuff.

They also offer many of the downloads in multiple formats, so you can choose the one you want.  You will need to create a login to download the materials, but the registration process is simple and there is no cost for that either.  Once you’ve registered, just add the stuff you want to your download list and click the download button.  To get started, go to

I’m curious if any of you use Open regularly?  Let me know in the comments section.  I have downloaded and used a bunch of their church resources, but haven’t used many of their kidmin resources.

I was reading an ancient letter sent from the Roman official Pliny the Younger (AD 62-c.113) to the Roman Emperor Trajan written during about the year AD 112.  This would have been the last year or in the last years of Pliny’s life.  The letter is written concerning what is to be done with Christians.  The letter explains that Christians were given a chance to recant their faith and worship other gods and the emperor in the presence of Roman officials or face punishment up to and often including death, because if nothing else, “their pertinacity and inflexible obstinacy should certainly be punished.”

What struck me the most was this statement.  “The contagion of this superstition has spread not only in the cities, but in the villages and rural districts as well; yet it seems capable of being checked and set right.” He goes on to explain why he believes folks were and would continue to return to the Roman system of worship.  Less than one hundred years after Jesus was resurrected, the Christian movement was spreading at an alarming rate, yet the Romans believed it could be stopped.

And then here we stand 1900 years later as a testimony that it couldn’t.  Millions of people have stood in the face of oppression and refused to back down on their belief that Jesus Christ lived, died, and lives again.  They have faced ridicule, torture, and death.  And Christ’s Church moves on and continues to grow.  It continues to spread in the cities and it continues to spread to the most rural and secluded areas of the world.

This whole thing is bigger than you or me.  It’s bigger than kidmin, student ministries, and even bigger than family ministry or Orange thinking.  It goes way beyond the four walls of your church building or home.  Jesus established a movement that could not, would not be stopped.  It spread like wildfire in the cities and then it infected the villages and furthermost reaches of the world.

But does my faith do it justice?  Is it contagious in the way that the faith of early Christians was contagious?  Is it unshakeable and unstoppable like those guys?  Or am I just in it because it is easy?  Do I either intentionally or unintentionally teach the kids in my church that being a Christian is easy?  Would I face death for this man Jesus?  All of these questions run through my head.  I only pray that my life brings glory to Jesus the way these early Christians brought glory to Him.  I pray that my love for God and my love for others becomes infectious to those I lead and to those that I interact with in everyday life.

Serving Him together,

The letter referenced above was found in the book Documents of the Christian Church which was published by Oxford University Press. The book is a collection of writings throughout history that have had a significant impact on the shaping of Christian history.